How to use the Prostate Massager
Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager
The prostate massager is designed for people assigned male at birth and is a toy for massaging the prostate gland (pictured), also known as the P-spot or "male G-spot". The prostate gland is located about 2-3 inches inside the anus, on the front side of the body (toward the stomach). The prostate is about the size of a walnut.

Believe me when I say that prostate milking is great.

You can get both vibrating and non-vibrating prostate toys, so I have divided it into two parts.

Using vibrating prostate toys
Once inserted, these sex toys ( will do all the work for you. Lie on your back or side and finger your buttocks with 1 or 2 lubricated fingers to make your bottom both comfortable and relaxed. Once you feel your buttocks getting a little looser and colder, slowly insert the toy so that the prostate massage area curves toward your stomach.

Once you reach the spot, you will know. Trust me.

Once the toy is fully inserted, it is recommended that you relax for a few minutes and then "accept" the toy into your body before using the vibrations. When you are ready, start using different vibration settings until you find the right one for you.

If you set the vibrations too high, the prostate vibrator will "slap" the anus, so keep this in mind. This is because you instinctively hold your hips tighter in response to the strong vibrations.

Using a non-vibrating prostate massager
Are sex toys definitely better if they vibrate? Well, not necessarily. In my experience, prostate massagers are better when they don't vibrate at all, and Aneros is a company that makes non-vibrating prostate toys that are known to give boys multiple male orgasms and even give "Super O" tr-like orgasms.

Trust me, these orgasms make Jack look boring.

Basically, you finger yourself with 1 or 2 lubricated fingers to heat up your anus until your butt relaxes and unwinds. Then, insert the massager so that the tip is pointing at your stomach while it is inside your stomach. Now you need to learn how to use your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles to move the massager around on the P-spot.

You'll feel it!

Simply put, the pelvic floor muscles (or "Kegel muscles") are the muscles you use to stop the flow of urine when you pee. The sphincter muscles are the tools you use to hold your hips tight. By using relaxation techniques and these muscles, you can have some truly transcendent orgasms.

I recently reviewed the Aneros Helix Syn Trident (a non-vibrating prostate toy) and detailed the best techniques for multiple male orgasms pocket pussy.

7. How to use cock rings

Men with erectile dysfunction or men with penises prefer cock rings, they just want to work as hard as possible and last as long as possible! Most cock rings look like simple rubber bands, but they are designed to restrict the flow of blood to the penis during an erection. The idea is to get an erection, put on a cock ring, and then "capture" the blood flow in the cock.

Who doesn't want a hard-on?

Most of these sex toys should be worn when you already have an erection - you place the ring around the root of the penis shaft. Some "double plug rings" can also be designed to go around the ball, or perhaps have a second ring that is designed to go around the ball alone.

As with most sex toys, I recommend using a little lube here.

Do not wear the cock ring for more than 30 minutes - insufficient blood can begin to cause serious damage.

You can also design cock rings for couples to use with their partners. These are usually vibrating cock rings that stimulate your partner's clitoris while you have intercourse. Each time you stab them, they take pleasure from your penis and clitoral pleasure from the vibrations of the cock ring. Good stuff.

It's a very sexy toy for couples!

8. How to use anal beads

Everyone has a bum, so anal beads are a sex toy that everyone can enjoy. Perfect for use alone or with a partner, these beads are designed to make your orgasm more intense when you come. The idea is to pull the beads out slowly as you approach orgasm - the orgasmic sensation will suddenly become more intense.

It may sound like a f-ck, but it's worth it.

First, you should consider washing your ass, especially if you have a long bead. If you feel the need to clean the bottom beforehand, we have a great guide to anal douching. When you're done, lubricate one or two of your fingers and insert them slowly into your butt to get used to the sensation and allow the anus to relax.

The anus is not as "ready for sex" as the vagina, so take your time.

Once relaxed, lubricate the beads and then slowly insert them one after the other. Insert only as many as you feel comfortable with - you don't need to insert them all. Once the beads are inside you, you probably won't feel them unless they're large.

Whether you are using them alone or with a partner, remember to pull them out slowly as you approach orgasm. This will make your orgasm more intense, no matter what your anatomy is. Don't pull these sex toys out quickly unless you enjoy an embarrassing emergency room visit.

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Hopefully you've learned a thing or two about using sex toys and having sex with them. Whether you use a sex toy alone or with a partner, remember to stay safe, follow the instructions and have fun with it!

From bunny vibrations to butt plugs, there's more than one way to use sex toys to add fun to your sex life!